"WEBVTTKind: captionsLanguage: enwasn't true it was a delusion and we later found out from the hospital that's because i'm uh undiagnosed bipolar before i begin i want to give a big ol sloppy kiss to my patrons for voting this film because i loved it it's so great to watch something that's both healthy and delicious silver linings playbook is a ludicrously tight film with an incredibly clever thriving ecosystem of patterns symbols and moving arcs i gotta say i'm impressed thank you every line contributes to its themes it knows when to be witty when to undercut itself and when to let wit solve its drama furthermore every character arc are so incredibly well coordinated that their individual rise and falls gives purpose for the direction of other characters he told me you should never throw a marriage out the window and it's core silver linings playbook is a love story about two people resolving the shame they feel with their mental health issues more specifically bipolar disorder bipolar disorder or previously known as manic depressive illness is a chronic mood disorder that causes episodes of mania hypermania and alternating or interwining episodes of depression as grand burke burmea and vieta argued it's a mental disorder that causes impairments and functionality of daily life resulting in costs for both patients and society it is a multifaceted disease and a comprehensive biological social and psychological approach is mandatory i have a problem you say more inappropriate things and appropriate things our protagonist pat is someone recovering from an episode where he lost his bananas and beat his wife nikki's cheating partner to near death and now lives with his parents he tries to slip back into his old life but fails as a result pat's desires are directly a result of his denying about a week before the incident i called the cops and i told him that my wife and the history guy were planning against me by embezzling money from the local high school which wasn't true was a delusion his early life wasn't exactly a triumph but to move on he needs to accept it by giving his wife an opportunity to breathe in a new condition he unknowingly admits that his neurosis has made her feel suffocated but then he meets tiffany a young widow with similar medical experiences but where tiffany finds comfort through casual dalliances pat finds it with nikki she's gonna be competing at the ben franklin hotel oh really my wife loves dance nikki loves dance however they're both substituting self-love with the impression of love from other people wait what what's happening therefore as they develop respect for one another they heal each other pat even defends her multiple times therefore allowing him to defend himself i go i go to a lot of therapy ronnie what are you trying to say i'm just saying am i messed up when you stop judging people you judge everybody you're the one who has a messed up marriage each character believes in a series of ideas which are all established in his or her mind by the way i'm about to quote a theorist quoting another theorist because my monkey brain couldn't refer to the ideas without crediting both as explicitly as argued by tekizadee and maradi in guest out psychology such ideas are called dogma nikki's waiting for me to get in shape and get my life in order and then she's gonna be with me people use such dogmas to express the reality of their world while it is one of their psychological capabilities but their mind is armed with another capability too which is hypothesis if you think that nikki is not around and tiffany is an attractive girl and if you get drawn towards tiffany you will spoil your chances of getting nikki back to you not bad dr jones making or structure making about which they are nonetheless often skeptical relying on such assertions comparing dogma with hypothesis one realizes that keeping such dualities in their mind could be frustrating or even devastating i wanted to stop dressing like she dresses i want her to stop acting so superior to me okay and she wanted me to lose weight and stop my mood swings which both i've done however psychologically they are inclined to contrive a coherent combination of these notions to reach equilibrium between them so if you become friends with tiffany nikki will think that you're a kind generous large-hearted person who helps people in need who is basically thriving so if you help tiffany it will be good for you relying on the aforementioned criteria for developing psychological balance the present research has come to recognize patrick as a mental patient trapped in disequilibrium as yet as a patient whose friendship with tiffany helps him to reach a gestalt chancey and ship depth oh god nabin who is going so well guest ouchier notion of equilibrium through self-realization maturity and oh my that was such a pain in the ass to read pat through his relationship with tiffany creates a healthy environment from not feeling ashamed of his bipolar disorder he begins to not look down on tiffany but at her as if she's his own reflection i don't have a filter when i talk i don't have a filter in conversation without you reminding me okay i'm sorry god a particular detail they share is the last of their former partners except where tiffany's husband died pat's ex-wife moved on and seemingly never loved him the equilibrium tiffany guides him towards is that his life is irreversible he can only move on although her means requires coercion as she gets him to join a dance competition in exchange for delivering his letter however as they practice dancing day by day they fall in love a feeling that becomes their true objectives with every meeting but they kind of refuse to recognize it i'm sorry i can't do anything else i can read nikki's letter okay it's just keep it's in my back of my head we don't almost regardless pat actually ends up becoming more composed than his own parents who were previously compensating over his erratic behavior but after a bet goes wrong because tiffany and pat needs to be together for his father's team to win a new bet is formed apare which hinges on them getting a five in the dance competition the bats is an extremely clever way to force pat to fully commit to his reinvestment that he's unconsciously made on his own life to force him to care again so he's no longer substituting his reality with the fantasy of a past that never truly existed look i'm my best self today and i think she's her best self today and her love's gonna be amazing originally pat refuses but he comes back when they lie and says ex-wife will be there but then she does actually show up which breaks tiffany's heart despite the stress they dance it's dope they get a five which they celebrate much the confusion of everyone why are they so excited about a fight however as pat goes to meet nikki tiffany leaves but pat's dad pushes him to go after her that girl loves you she really really loves you and i don't know if nikki ever did but she sure as hell doesn't love you right now and they embrace life goes on the story is a classic the journey is more important than the destination and every step changes where the path leads a love story about how a healthy environment creates a better life in their study social support for individuals with serious mental illness the authors noted that in the general population social support buffers against stressful life events increases adherence to medical treatments and improves recovery from medical illness among other health promoting effects for people with serious mental illness perceptions of adequate social support are associated with several psychological benefits including increased self-esteem feelings of empowerment functioning quality of life and recovery while the absence of social support appears related to greater psychiatric symptoms poorer perceptions of overall health and reduced potential for full community integration end quote this is an important study because all of the factors relate to pat and his family if they all had supported each other early on and confronted their illness then possibly the bipolar outburst would have been so strong however it is through social support that everything works out now i plan to end this video with some sort of wise final word but i'm not a psychologist and everything i said came from those very specific readings so all i've got to say is look after each other to destigmatize is to find peace and acceptance with what is and love the thrill of what can be people like tiffany or danny or me maybe we know something that you guys don't know okay did you ever think about it maybe the silver lining we find are the friends that we make along the way that was my attempt at being poetic and wise i don't think it worked all right so this essay took absolutely ages to write hopefully you liked it i really really just i feel happy to be back making non-superhero film essays now if you don't mind i'm gonna go save the world foreignwasn't true it was a delusion and we later found out from the hospital that's because i'm uh undiagnosed bipolar before i begin i want to give a big ol sloppy kiss to my patrons for voting this film because i loved it it's so great to watch something that's both healthy and delicious silver linings playbook is a ludicrously tight film with an incredibly clever thriving ecosystem of patterns symbols and moving arcs i gotta say i'm impressed thank you every line contributes to its themes it knows when to be witty when to undercut itself and when to let wit solve its drama furthermore every character arc are so incredibly well coordinated that their individual rise and falls gives purpose for the direction of other characters he told me you should never throw a marriage out the window and it's core silver linings playbook is a love story about two people resolving the shame they feel with their mental health issues more specifically bipolar disorder bipolar disorder or previously known as manic depressive illness is a chronic mood disorder that causes episodes of mania hypermania and alternating or interwining episodes of depression as grand burke burmea and vieta argued it's a mental disorder that causes impairments and functionality of daily life resulting in costs for both patients and society it is a multifaceted disease and a comprehensive biological social and psychological approach is mandatory i have a problem you say more inappropriate things and appropriate things our protagonist pat is someone recovering from an episode where he lost his bananas and beat his wife nikki's cheating partner to near death and now lives with his parents he tries to slip back into his old life but fails as a result pat's desires are directly a result of his denying about a week before the incident i called the cops and i told him that my wife and the history guy were planning against me by embezzling money from the local high school which wasn't true was a delusion his early life wasn't exactly a triumph but to move on he needs to accept it by giving his wife an opportunity to breathe in a new condition he unknowingly admits that his neurosis has made her feel suffocated but then he meets tiffany a young widow with similar medical experiences but where tiffany finds comfort through casual dalliances pat finds it with nikki she's gonna be competing at the ben franklin hotel oh really my wife loves dance nikki loves dance however they're both substituting self-love with the impression of love from other people wait what what's happening therefore as they develop respect for one another they heal each other pat even defends her multiple times therefore allowing him to defend himself i go i go to a lot of therapy ronnie what are you trying to say i'm just saying am i messed up when you stop judging people you judge everybody you're the one who has a messed up marriage each character believes in a series of ideas which are all established in his or her mind by the way i'm about to quote a theorist quoting another theorist because my monkey brain couldn't refer to the ideas without crediting both as explicitly as argued by tekizadee and maradi in guest out psychology such ideas are called dogma nikki's waiting for me to get in shape and get my life in order and then she's gonna be with me people use such dogmas to express the reality of their world while it is one of their psychological capabilities but their mind is armed with another capability too which is hypothesis if you think that nikki is not around and tiffany is an attractive girl and if you get drawn towards tiffany you will spoil your chances of getting nikki back to you not bad dr jones making or structure making about which they are nonetheless often skeptical relying on such assertions comparing dogma with hypothesis one realizes that keeping such dualities in their mind could be frustrating or even devastating i wanted to stop dressing like she dresses i want her to stop acting so superior to me okay and she wanted me to lose weight and stop my mood swings which both i've done however psychologically they are inclined to contrive a coherent combination of these notions to reach equilibrium between them so if you become friends with tiffany nikki will think that you're a kind generous large-hearted person who helps people in need who is basically thriving so if you help tiffany it will be good for you relying on the aforementioned criteria for developing psychological balance the present research has come to recognize patrick as a mental patient trapped in disequilibrium as yet as a patient whose friendship with tiffany helps him to reach a gestalt chancey and ship depth oh god nabin who is going so well guest ouchier notion of equilibrium through self-realization maturity and oh my that was such a pain in the ass to read pat through his relationship with tiffany creates a healthy environment from not feeling ashamed of his bipolar disorder he begins to not look down on tiffany but at her as if she's his own reflection i don't have a filter when i talk i don't have a filter in conversation without you reminding me okay i'm sorry god a particular detail they share is the last of their former partners except where tiffany's husband died pat's ex-wife moved on and seemingly never loved him the equilibrium tiffany guides him towards is that his life is irreversible he can only move on although her means requires coercion as she gets him to join a dance competition in exchange for delivering his letter however as they practice dancing day by day they fall in love a feeling that becomes their true objectives with every meeting but they kind of refuse to recognize it i'm sorry i can't do anything else i can read nikki's letter okay it's just keep it's in my back of my head we don't almost regardless pat actually ends up becoming more composed than his own parents who were previously compensating over his erratic behavior but after a bet goes wrong because tiffany and pat needs to be together for his father's team to win a new bet is formed apare which hinges on them getting a five in the dance competition the bats is an extremely clever way to force pat to fully commit to his reinvestment that he's unconsciously made on his own life to force him to care again so he's no longer substituting his reality with the fantasy of a past that never truly existed look i'm my best self today and i think she's her best self today and her love's gonna be amazing originally pat refuses but he comes back when they lie and says ex-wife will be there but then she does actually show up which breaks tiffany's heart despite the stress they dance it's dope they get a five which they celebrate much the confusion of everyone why are they so excited about a fight however as pat goes to meet nikki tiffany leaves but pat's dad pushes him to go after her that girl loves you she really really loves you and i don't know if nikki ever did but she sure as hell doesn't love you right now and they embrace life goes on the story is a classic the journey is more important than the destination and every step changes where the path leads a love story about how a healthy environment creates a better life in their study social support for individuals with serious mental illness the authors noted that in the general population social support buffers against stressful life events increases adherence to medical treatments and improves recovery from medical illness among other health promoting effects for people with serious mental illness perceptions of adequate social support are associated with several psychological benefits including increased self-esteem feelings of empowerment functioning quality of life and recovery while the absence of social support appears related to greater psychiatric symptoms poorer perceptions of overall health and reduced potential for full community integration end quote this is an important study because all of the factors relate to pat and his family if they all had supported each other early on and confronted their illness then possibly the bipolar outburst would have been so strong however it is through social support that everything works out now i plan to end this video with some sort of wise final word but i'm not a psychologist and everything i said came from those very specific readings so all i've got to say is look after each other to destigmatize is to find peace and acceptance with what is and love the thrill of what can be people like tiffany or danny or me maybe we know something that you guys don't know okay did you ever think about it maybe the silver lining we find are the friends that we make along the way that was my attempt at being poetic and wise i don't think it worked all right so this essay took absolutely ages to write hopefully you liked it i really really just i feel happy to be back making non-superhero film essays now if you don't mind i'm gonna go save the world foreign\n"