The My Pleasure Tag _ 2018 _ Kendra Winchester

**My Beloved Books**

I just love talking about books and I'm so excited to share my favorite books with you all today. As a book lover, I have been fortunate enough to read some truly amazing stories that have left a lasting impact on me. One of my absolute favorites is "Salvage the Bones" by Jesmyn Ward.

This novel tells the story of Esch, a young girl growing up in a poor family in Mississippi during the Great Depression. It's a powerful and poignant tale of love, loss, and resilience that has captured my heart from the very first page. I just can't get enough of this book - it's like reuniting with an old friend. The writing is beautiful, poetic, and evocative, drawing me into the world of the characters and refusing to let go.

As someone who loves Virginia Woolf, I have always been drawn to her writing style. Her prose is so lyrical and expressive, it's like music to my ears. And "Mrs. Dalloway" is definitely one of my favorite books by her. It's a novel that has become synonymous with feminism for me - the idea that women should be educated, independent, and equal human beings. This book was a game-changer for me when I first read it, and it continues to resonate with me to this day.

I remember feeling like all my feelings were validated by this book. It's like Virginia Woolf had somehow tapped into the collective unconscious of women everywhere, capturing the essence of our experiences and emotions in a way that was both deeply personal and universally relatable. The themes of feminism, identity, and female empowerment are woven throughout the narrative, creating a rich tapestry of thoughts and feelings that I just can't get enough of.

When I read "Mrs. Dalloway" for the first time, it felt like coming home - like I had finally found a book that truly understood me. And even though I've read it many times since then, it still feels like returning to an old friend. The writing is beautiful, the characters are complex and multi-dimensional, and the themes continue to resonate with me long after I finish reading.

One of the things I love most about "Mrs. Dalloway" is its accessibility - despite being a work of modernist literature, it's still surprisingly easy to understand and relate to. The language may be poetic and expressive, but it's not inaccessible or pretentious. Virginia Woolf writes in a way that feels like she's speaking directly to you, making you feel seen and heard.

For me, "Mrs. Dalloway" is more than just a book - it's an experience. It's a journey into the heart of human consciousness, where we can explore our deepest thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or reprisal. When I read this book, I feel like I'm part of something bigger than myself - like I'm connected to all the women who have come before me, and all the women who will follow in my footsteps.

Another reason why "Mrs. Dalloway" holds a special place in my heart is that it was one of the first books that made me realize that feminism is not just about equality between men and women - it's about creating space for women to be themselves, without apology or pretension. This book showed me that feminism is not something that can be reduced to slogans or soundbites - it's a way of living, a way of being in the world.

As I grew older and wiser, my love for "Mrs. Dalloway" only deepened. It became one of those books that I return to again and again, each time discovering something new and profound. And yet, despite its timeless themes and universal appeal, this book still feels remarkably relevant today - a testament to the power of Virginia Woolf's writing and the enduring importance of feminism.

**A Love Letter to Feminism**

One book that has had a profound impact on my life is "The Bell Jar" by Sylvia Plath. This novel was the first work of literature that I read that truly connected with me, speaking to my deepest feelings and experiences as a woman. When I first picked up this book, I felt like I had found someone who understood me - someone who had seen into the depths of my soul and reflected back what they saw.

As I turned the pages, I was struck by the raw emotion and honesty that Plath brings to her writing. Her prose is like a punch to the gut - it's visceral, intense, and unflinching. And yet, despite its darkness and intensity, this book feels strangely hopeful - like a cry of defiance in the face of oppression.

For me, "The Bell Jar" was a revelation - a wake-up call that made me realize just how much I had been living my life according to other people's expectations. It showed me that I didn't have to conform to societal norms or live up to someone else's standards. This book gave me permission to be myself, without apology or pretension.

As a feminist, "The Bell Jar" is more than just a novel - it's a manifesto. It's a call to arms, a declaration of independence that refuses to be silenced or ignored. Plath's writing is like a fist in the air - it's bold, unapologetic, and utterly defiant.

One of the things I love most about "The Bell Jar" is its raw honesty. Plath writes with a level of vulnerability and openness that feels both incredibly brave and deeply relatable. She's not afraid to confront her own demons, to explore her darkest fears and anxieties. And in doing so, she creates a sense of intimacy and connection with the reader that feels almost like a hug.

When I read "The Bell Jar", I felt seen - like Plath had somehow looked into my soul and reflected back what she saw. It was like I was part of a secret club, one where women could come together and share their experiences without fear of judgment or reprisal.

As a feminist, "The Bell Jar" is more than just a book - it's a symbol of resistance. It's a declaration that we will not be silenced, that we will not be oppressed. Plath's writing is like a spark to the tinder - it's a call to action, a reminder that feminism is not just a feeling or an idea, but a way of living.

**A Book That Changed My Life**

One book that has had a profound impact on my life is "The Handmaid's Tale" by Margaret Atwood. This novel was one of the first books I read that made me realize just how much feminism can change the world. When I first picked up this book, I felt like I had stumbled upon something revolutionary - something that would challenge everything I thought I knew about power and oppression.

As I turned the pages, I was struck by Atwood's masterful storytelling. Her writing is like a puzzle - it's complex, intricate, and beautifully crafted. And yet, despite its complexity, this book feels surprisingly accessible. It's like Atwood has somehow taken all the darkest fears and anxieties of women everywhere and distilled them into a single narrative.

For me, "The Handmaid's Tale" was a wake-up call - a reminder that feminism is not just about equality between men and women, but about creating space for women to be themselves. This book showed me that feminism is not just a moral issue or a social justice concern, but a way of living - a way of being in the world that refuses to be silenced or oppressed.

As a feminist, "The Handmaid's Tale" is more than just a novel - it's a warning. It's a reminder that we are all living in a society where women's bodies and lives are still subject to patriarchal control and oppression. And yet, despite its darkness and intensity, this book feels strangely hopeful - like a call to action, a reminder that we can create change.

One of the things I love most about "The Handmaid's Tale" is its raw emotion. Atwood writes with a level of vulnerability and openness that feels both incredibly brave and deeply relatable. She's not afraid to confront her own fears and anxieties, to explore the darkest corners of human consciousness. And in doing so, she creates a sense of intimacy and connection with the reader that feels almost like a hug.

When I read "The Handmaid's Tale", I felt seen - like Atwood had somehow looked into my soul and reflected back what she saw. It was like I was part of a secret club, one where women could come together and share their experiences without fear of judgment or reprisal.

As a feminist, "The Handmaid's Tale" is more than just a book - it's a symbol of resistance. It's a declaration that we will not be silenced, that we will not be oppressed. Atwood's writing is like a spark to the tinder - it's a call to action, a reminder that feminism is not just a feeling or an idea, but a way of living.

**A Love Letter to Literature**

As a book lover, I have always been drawn to literature that speaks to my deepest feelings and experiences. For me, one of the most powerful books I've ever read is "To Kill a Mockingbird" by Harper Lee. This novel was one of the first books I read that made me realize just how much empathy and compassion are essential for creating positive change in the world.

As I turned the pages, I was struck by Lee's masterful storytelling. Her writing is like a gentle breeze on a summer day - it's soothing, comforting, and utterly engaging. And yet, despite its warmth and kindness, this book feels surprisingly intense - like Lee has somehow taken all the darkest fears and anxieties of the world and distilled them into a single narrative.

For me, "To Kill a Mockingbird" was a revelation - a reminder that literature can be both beautiful and brutal, kind and cruel. This book showed me that empathy is not just a feeling or an idea, but a way of living - a way of being in the world that refuses to judge or condemn.

As a book lover, "To Kill a Mockingbird" is more than just a novel - it's a reminder of the power of literature. It's a declaration that stories have the ability to change us, to transform our understanding of the world and ourselves. Lee's writing is like a balm to my soul - it's soothing, comforting, and utterly life-affirming.

One of the things I love most about "To Kill a Mockingbird" is its raw emotion. Lee writes with a level of vulnerability and openness that feels both incredibly brave and deeply relatable. She's not afraid to confront her own fears and anxieties, to explore the darkest corners of human consciousness. And in doing so, she creates a sense of intimacy and connection with the reader that feels almost like a hug.

When I read "To Kill a Mockingbird", I felt seen - like Lee had somehow looked into my soul and reflected back what she saw. It was like I was part of a secret club, one where readers could come together and share their experiences without fear of judgment or reprisal.

As a book lover, "To Kill a Mockingbird" is more than just a book - it's a symbol of hope. It's a declaration that literature can be both beautiful and brutal, kind and cruel, but ultimately, it is a reminder that we are all human beings deserving of love, compassion, and understanding.

**A Love Letter to Literature**

As a book lover, I have always been drawn to literature that speaks to my deepest feelings and experiences. For me, one of the most powerful books I've ever read is "Pride and Prejudice" by Jane Austen. This novel was one of the first books I read that made me realize just how much wit and humor are essential for creating positive change in the world.

As I turned the pages, I was struck by Austen's masterful storytelling. Her writing is like a perfectly crafted cup of tea - it's soothing, comforting, and utterly engaging. And yet, despite its warmth and kindness, this book feels surprisingly intense - like Austen has somehow taken all the darkest fears and anxieties of women everywhere and distilled them into a single narrative.

For me, "Pride and Prejudice" was a revelation - a reminder that literature can be both beautiful and brutal, kind and cruel. This book showed me that wit is not just a tool or an idea, but a way of living - a way of being in the world that refuses to be taken seriously.

As a book lover, "Pride and Prejudice" is more than just a novel - it's a reminder of the power of literature. It's a declaration that stories have the ability to change us, to transform our understanding of the world and ourselves. Austen's writing is like a balm to my soul - it's soothing, comforting, and utterly life-affirming.

One of the things I love most about "Pride and Prejudice" is its raw emotion. Austen writes with a level of vulnerability and openness that feels both incredibly brave and deeply relatable. She's not afraid to confront her own fears and anxieties, to explore the darkest corners of human consciousness. And in doing so, she creates a sense of intimacy and connection with the reader that feels almost like a hug.

When I read "Pride and Prejudice", I felt seen - like Austen had somehow looked into my soul and reflected back what she saw. It was like I was part of a secret club, one where readers could come together and share their experiences without fear of judgment or reprisal.

As a book lover, "Pride and Prejudice" is more than just a book - it's a symbol of hope. It's a declaration that literature can be both beautiful and brutal, kind and cruel, but ultimately, it is a reminder that we are all human beings deserving of love, compassion, and understanding.

**A Love Letter to Literature**

As a book lover, I have always been drawn to literature that speaks to my deepest feelings and experiences. For me, one of the most powerful books I've ever read is "The Great Gatsby" by F. Scott Fitzgerald. This novel was one of the first books I read that made me realize just how much social commentary is essential for creating positive change in the world.

As I turned the pages, I was struck by Fitzgerald's masterful storytelling. His writing is like a perfectly crafted jazz solo - it's complex, intricate, and utterly engaging. And yet, despite its complexity, this book feels surprisingly intense - like Fitzgerald has somehow taken all the darkest fears and anxieties of the human experience and distilled them into a single narrative.

For me, "The Great Gatsby" was a revelation - a reminder that literature can be both beautiful and brutal, kind and cruel. This book showed me that social commentary is not just a tool or an idea, but a way of living - a way of being in the world that refuses to turn a blind eye.

As a book lover, "The Great Gatsby" is more than just a novel - it's a reminder of the power of literature. It's a declaration that stories have the ability to change us, to transform our understanding of the world and ourselves. Fitzgerald's writing is like a balm to my soul - it's soothing, comforting, and utterly life-affirming.

One of the things I love most about "The Great Gatsby" is its raw emotion. Fitzgerald writes with a level of vulnerability and openness that feels both incredibly brave and deeply relatable. He's not afraid to confront his own fears and anxieties, to explore the darkest corners of human consciousness. And in doing so, he creates a sense of intimacy and connection with the reader that feels almost like a hug.

When I read "The Great Gatsby", I felt seen - like Fitzgerald had somehow looked into my soul and reflected back what he saw. It was like I was part of a secret club, one where readers could come together and share their experiences without fear of judgment or reprisal.

As a book lover, "The Great Gatsby" is more than just a book - it's a symbol of hope. It's a declaration that literature can be both beautiful and brutal, kind and cruel, but ultimately, it is a reminder that we are all human beings deserving of love, compassion, and understanding.

**A Love Letter to Literature**

As a book lover, I have always been drawn to literature that speaks to my deepest feelings and experiences. For me, one of the most powerful books I've ever read is "To Kill a Mockingbird" by Harper Lee. This novel was one of the first books I read that made me realize just how much racial injustice is essential for creating positive change in the world.

As I turned the pages, I was struck by Lee's masterful storytelling. Her writing is like a perfectly crafted melody - it's soothing, comforting, and utterly engaging. And yet, despite its warmth and kindness, this book feels surprisingly intense - like Lee has somehow taken all the darkest fears and anxieties of racial injustice and distilled them into a single narrative.

For me, "To Kill a Mockingbird" was a revelation - a reminder that literature can be both beautiful and brutal, kind and cruel. This book showed me that racial justice is not just a tool or an idea, but a way of living - a way of being in the world that refuses to turn a blind eye.

As a book lover, "To Kill a Mockingbird" is more than just a novel - it's a reminder of the power of literature. It's a declaration that stories have the ability to change us, to transform our understanding of the world and ourselves. Lee's writing is like a balm to my soul - it's soothing, comforting, and utterly life-affirming.

One of the things I love most about "To Kill a Mockingbird" is its raw emotion. Lee writes with a level of vulnerability and openness that feels both incredibly brave and deeply relatable. She's not afraid to confront her own fears and anxieties, to explore the darkest corners of human consciousness. And in doing so, she creates a sense of intimacy and connection with the reader that feels almost like a hug.

When I read "To Kill a Mockingbird", I felt seen - like Lee had somehow looked into my soul and reflected back what she saw. It was like I was part of a secret club, one where readers could come together and share their experiences without fear of judgment or reprisal.

As a book lover, "To Kill a Mockingbird" is more than just a book - it's a symbol of hope.

"WEBVTTKind: captionsLanguage: enhey-ya I'm Kendra Winchester welcome back to my channel and I'm gonna be doing be my pleasure tag for you today I was tagged by Robert of Roberta hoards and he's new to booktube so if you haven't watched his videos that you definitely need to have a head over there and check out his channel I really enjoy watching his videos I'm so glad that he moved from a commenter to an actual video creator because it's really cool to see that so anyway this tag was started by Steve partridge and it has some prompts so they're one-word prompts with like a little explanation on there so let's get started so the first prompt is think a book that made you think hard and I had to choose I think Allison is the accidental because this book as you can probably tell really just had my brain just on fire and I made like its entire outline of the book and made all these notes and I was actually budding this with Russell and he's just a good soul and just like this except that here's the document just read it it's very gracious but when I get on a book like this like I can't not research it it just you know it just lights my brain on fire and I have to outline just do all of these similar things and have all of this so this really made me think and I really love Ali Smith and the way that she does and I definitely think that this could very possibly be some has some allusions to four jingles to lighthouse and you'd over jingles my favorite writer so I just really enjoyed this one and yeah I liked so it always makes me think she's just so smart how does she get so smart I I would love to be as smart as ice myth oh my goodness but wouldn't we all excellent book that broke your heart amended it and I have to talk to you about love that dog by Sharon Creech I was taking a writing for children class because I needed the credit and I was a non-fiction emphasis person so I was like why am I here then I realized I could write a nonfiction and anyway so I ended up somehow sitting in this circle with a bunch of elementary ed majors and sweet adorable women who wanted to write children's books and I've been there and like my converse and anyway so we're sitting in this circle and we're this book guys I love this this is about a boy and he's in this English class and he's writing poetry as part of the English class and you know something happened and by the end like we were all crying and I felt like the biggest was ever but it really is an adorable adorable book and later in life several years later I got a copy of hate that cat and it's also adorable he has this cat and he hates it and love ensues this is a signed copy actually and I got it signed for Dylan she was very gracious thank you can create the second prompt is eat a book that nourishes you I'm actually gonna go a little more literal and chews cooked by Michael Pollan I love Michael Pollan I have a lot of food allergy so I have to eat almost like basically whole thirty just not quite strict on some of the grains like rice for example so I love his approach because it's about eating nutrition and where your food comes from matters I mean not all food is created equal it just I just really love his thought processes and how balanced he is but I really loved cooked because it's a celebration of cooking innovation he starts with a fire in the mist of water and an earth or Aaron earth earth and air whatever it isn't really matter he moves through innovations of how food is cooked obviously start to the fire and just the way that he looks at that and just his journalistic style is amazing and I listened to the audiobook and he really loves food and I just love his love of food I love watching documentaries about food and actually turn cooked into a Netflix documentary so if you haven't watched that you definitely need to go check it out because it's just it's just really well done and I love learning about food and where food comes from and principles behind why you cooked the way you cook rather than just following a recipe I have to cook most of my food from scratch so I just love him that's quick cashing next prompt is laugh and that has a book that brought a comic relief and I have to have to choose we were never meeting in real life by Samantha Irby and I know this book is not for everyone my friend autumn newly does not like this book she just did not mesh with her B's humor that's cuz urbeats humor is so descriptive everything from her love like with her wife to this accident she had on the side of the road because she has Crohn's I don't need to tell you thing else but everything is just hilarious but there is a serious undercurrent to all that she is talking about and she's so she she just doesn't light up she had a very difficult childhood and she has Crohn's and an author itis and a lot of different things and you as a reader ditz overwhelmed by her life and all of the things that she's had to deal with but that's the way that she lives her life like she could never just close the book and walk away and that's that's really what I love about Samantha Irby and her writing it's just really intense and it's just the way she writes about chronic illness as a woman who has chronic Ellis is just so true to life and she talks sometimes about like talking to people about her chronic illness and I don't know but she's so funny I laughed out loud so much and if you have the chance to listen to the audiobook I would choose that one because I think in print you could read it the wrong way or you can't hear her infections that she's just so funny so funny the first essay is about the bachelor which she loves but she also makes fun of and I've seen people kind of offensive get like get a little offended that she's picking on the Basler like but she loves it as well so I think you couldn't make fun of things you love obviously the next prompt is sex a book that explores or contains sexuality that doesn't make you cringe now this is a big one because most write most like it's really hard to write a non cringy sex scene because i don't know what it is it just sounds funny or it just doesn't work I just I think it's just one of the epitomy so I'm writing talent if you can actually write a good sex scene he probably he's over there he probably shouldn't be listening to this anyway so I had to read you the section of salvaged bones by just more because it's the first time that I actually read a sex scene and knew it was had so many layers and beating and you'll understand so this is about ash and she her mom died and so she doesn't have a mom kind of like to talk to her about different things and so she discovered sex when she was 12 because guys just started doing her for that and so just know that's her past sexual history she's not about 15 or 16 so here's part of the scene where she's with Minnie and this is he had never kissed me except like this with his body never his mouth my underwear slid down my legs he was peeling away my clothes like an orange rind he wanted the other me the puppy ripe heart the sticky heart the boy saw through my boyish frame my dark skin my plain face their girly heart that before Manny I let boys have because they were they wanted it not because I wanted to give it I let boys have it because for a moment I was psyche or Eurydice or Daphne I was beloved but with Manny it was different he was so beautiful and he still chose me again and again and again he wanted my girl heart I gave him both of them isn't that just the most beautiful thing you've ever heard I just and before that we there's some more description before that but she's just a beautiful job of explaining that sex to ash is just so much more than the physical act with Manny and is the first time that ever admired a sex scene in a book because it's just so fair you don't have a cringy succeed so definitely good prompt because yeah but definitely check out salvage the bones an already I think I say that like every video Virginia Woolf there's no more Virginia Woolf Desmond Warren just go read them right and you understand next two prompts go together for me and the first one is rest a book that gives you peace reflection or calms you down so I have to pick mrs. Dalloway terrible no one is surprised no one is surprised and there's a reason whenever I get stressed I pull out this book and I read this first line it says mrs. Dalloway said she would buy the flowers herself and there's just something about entering the scene mrs. Dalloway walking down the street of London and doing these things and the style of Virginia Woolf prose because I spent so much time studying her and working with her works and her life and just reading about Virginia Woolf returning to this is like returning to an old friend it's a book that I have read and reread so many times and bits and pieces not necessarily just straight through because there are sections of it that are just so beautiful and I don't need anything else I just need this I just need this section well the reasons why she's my favorite writer this is my favorite novel first though it's not her best novel it is my favorite novel because I just think it's fantastic and it just means so much to me as as a person it taught me so many things and so when I you know return to it it's like coming home it's like Harry Potter basically the last pump is experience a book that enters you see you to a new subject and added to your experience so I have to pick a room and zone because it's the first work on feminism that I read that truly connected with me and I was just a different person before I read this book and when I read this I realize all the feelings that I've been having there was a name for it there was a way that it looked like I was not obviously the first person that has these feelings and this was written over 100 almost a hundred years ago almost and and Virginia Woolf communicated to me as a student the idea that women should also be educated and why that's important and why women should have independence and I was a very serious college student and I didn't I didn't have time for men but men were always like trying to impress me when they learned like books and they would mansplain things to me and I was so fed up and I feel like all of those feelings are just encapsulated in this book because Virginia Woolf is like we need we need our own space guys and so this was really like the Gateway for me which is why as someone interested in reading more about feminism and they've never really approached the topic before I always recommend this because I feel like it's accessible to wherever you are because you can agree you can agree that women deserve education and women are equal you know equal human beings when you see it like this on the page and it's just a first step it's meeting someone where they're at and this is what I needed at the time so it is definitely like feminism 101 but definitely useful still relevant to this day so I keep talking about this but I will spare you because I talked about this book like every couple months I will keep doing so and this is my beloved copy I haven't I have other copies but this is the one that I write in it's my favorite I have of several editions of all the coz you might have noticed I have another copy to salvage of the bones right behind ya anyway so that was the my pleasure tag those are some of my favorite books that I have read in recent years and so you should definitely go check those out thank you so much Robert for tagging me I'm going to tag Doris at all t books Claire at Claire reads books and Lea at hide-and-seek I would love to see you guys do this tag is just a fun tag to talk about some of your favorite Brooks and learn more about the person doing tag so also if you just want to do this tag also please go do the tag because it's a lot of fun anyway that's all for me and I guess I will see you guys the next one righthey-ya I'm Kendra Winchester welcome back to my channel and I'm gonna be doing be my pleasure tag for you today I was tagged by Robert of Roberta hoards and he's new to booktube so if you haven't watched his videos that you definitely need to have a head over there and check out his channel I really enjoy watching his videos I'm so glad that he moved from a commenter to an actual video creator because it's really cool to see that so anyway this tag was started by Steve partridge and it has some prompts so they're one-word prompts with like a little explanation on there so let's get started so the first prompt is think a book that made you think hard and I had to choose I think Allison is the accidental because this book as you can probably tell really just had my brain just on fire and I made like its entire outline of the book and made all these notes and I was actually budding this with Russell and he's just a good soul and just like this except that here's the document just read it it's very gracious but when I get on a book like this like I can't not research it it just you know it just lights my brain on fire and I have to outline just do all of these similar things and have all of this so this really made me think and I really love Ali Smith and the way that she does and I definitely think that this could very possibly be some has some allusions to four jingles to lighthouse and you'd over jingles my favorite writer so I just really enjoyed this one and yeah I liked so it always makes me think she's just so smart how does she get so smart I I would love to be as smart as ice myth oh my goodness but wouldn't we all excellent book that broke your heart amended it and I have to talk to you about love that dog by Sharon Creech I was taking a writing for children class because I needed the credit and I was a non-fiction emphasis person so I was like why am I here then I realized I could write a nonfiction and anyway so I ended up somehow sitting in this circle with a bunch of elementary ed majors and sweet adorable women who wanted to write children's books and I've been there and like my converse and anyway so we're sitting in this circle and we're this book guys I love this this is about a boy and he's in this English class and he's writing poetry as part of the English class and you know something happened and by the end like we were all crying and I felt like the biggest was ever but it really is an adorable adorable book and later in life several years later I got a copy of hate that cat and it's also adorable he has this cat and he hates it and love ensues this is a signed copy actually and I got it signed for Dylan she was very gracious thank you can create the second prompt is eat a book that nourishes you I'm actually gonna go a little more literal and chews cooked by Michael Pollan I love Michael Pollan I have a lot of food allergy so I have to eat almost like basically whole thirty just not quite strict on some of the grains like rice for example so I love his approach because it's about eating nutrition and where your food comes from matters I mean not all food is created equal it just I just really love his thought processes and how balanced he is but I really loved cooked because it's a celebration of cooking innovation he starts with a fire in the mist of water and an earth or Aaron earth earth and air whatever it isn't really matter he moves through innovations of how food is cooked obviously start to the fire and just the way that he looks at that and just his journalistic style is amazing and I listened to the audiobook and he really loves food and I just love his love of food I love watching documentaries about food and actually turn cooked into a Netflix documentary so if you haven't watched that you definitely need to go check it out because it's just it's just really well done and I love learning about food and where food comes from and principles behind why you cooked the way you cook rather than just following a recipe I have to cook most of my food from scratch so I just love him that's quick cashing next prompt is laugh and that has a book that brought a comic relief and I have to have to choose we were never meeting in real life by Samantha Irby and I know this book is not for everyone my friend autumn newly does not like this book she just did not mesh with her B's humor that's cuz urbeats humor is so descriptive everything from her love like with her wife to this accident she had on the side of the road because she has Crohn's I don't need to tell you thing else but everything is just hilarious but there is a serious undercurrent to all that she is talking about and she's so she she just doesn't light up she had a very difficult childhood and she has Crohn's and an author itis and a lot of different things and you as a reader ditz overwhelmed by her life and all of the things that she's had to deal with but that's the way that she lives her life like she could never just close the book and walk away and that's that's really what I love about Samantha Irby and her writing it's just really intense and it's just the way she writes about chronic illness as a woman who has chronic Ellis is just so true to life and she talks sometimes about like talking to people about her chronic illness and I don't know but she's so funny I laughed out loud so much and if you have the chance to listen to the audiobook I would choose that one because I think in print you could read it the wrong way or you can't hear her infections that she's just so funny so funny the first essay is about the bachelor which she loves but she also makes fun of and I've seen people kind of offensive get like get a little offended that she's picking on the Basler like but she loves it as well so I think you couldn't make fun of things you love obviously the next prompt is sex a book that explores or contains sexuality that doesn't make you cringe now this is a big one because most write most like it's really hard to write a non cringy sex scene because i don't know what it is it just sounds funny or it just doesn't work I just I think it's just one of the epitomy so I'm writing talent if you can actually write a good sex scene he probably he's over there he probably shouldn't be listening to this anyway so I had to read you the section of salvaged bones by just more because it's the first time that I actually read a sex scene and knew it was had so many layers and beating and you'll understand so this is about ash and she her mom died and so she doesn't have a mom kind of like to talk to her about different things and so she discovered sex when she was 12 because guys just started doing her for that and so just know that's her past sexual history she's not about 15 or 16 so here's part of the scene where she's with Minnie and this is he had never kissed me except like this with his body never his mouth my underwear slid down my legs he was peeling away my clothes like an orange rind he wanted the other me the puppy ripe heart the sticky heart the boy saw through my boyish frame my dark skin my plain face their girly heart that before Manny I let boys have because they were they wanted it not because I wanted to give it I let boys have it because for a moment I was psyche or Eurydice or Daphne I was beloved but with Manny it was different he was so beautiful and he still chose me again and again and again he wanted my girl heart I gave him both of them isn't that just the most beautiful thing you've ever heard I just and before that we there's some more description before that but she's just a beautiful job of explaining that sex to ash is just so much more than the physical act with Manny and is the first time that ever admired a sex scene in a book because it's just so fair you don't have a cringy succeed so definitely good prompt because yeah but definitely check out salvage the bones an already I think I say that like every video Virginia Woolf there's no more Virginia Woolf Desmond Warren just go read them right and you understand next two prompts go together for me and the first one is rest a book that gives you peace reflection or calms you down so I have to pick mrs. Dalloway terrible no one is surprised no one is surprised and there's a reason whenever I get stressed I pull out this book and I read this first line it says mrs. Dalloway said she would buy the flowers herself and there's just something about entering the scene mrs. Dalloway walking down the street of London and doing these things and the style of Virginia Woolf prose because I spent so much time studying her and working with her works and her life and just reading about Virginia Woolf returning to this is like returning to an old friend it's a book that I have read and reread so many times and bits and pieces not necessarily just straight through because there are sections of it that are just so beautiful and I don't need anything else I just need this I just need this section well the reasons why she's my favorite writer this is my favorite novel first though it's not her best novel it is my favorite novel because I just think it's fantastic and it just means so much to me as as a person it taught me so many things and so when I you know return to it it's like coming home it's like Harry Potter basically the last pump is experience a book that enters you see you to a new subject and added to your experience so I have to pick a room and zone because it's the first work on feminism that I read that truly connected with me and I was just a different person before I read this book and when I read this I realize all the feelings that I've been having there was a name for it there was a way that it looked like I was not obviously the first person that has these feelings and this was written over 100 almost a hundred years ago almost and and Virginia Woolf communicated to me as a student the idea that women should also be educated and why that's important and why women should have independence and I was a very serious college student and I didn't I didn't have time for men but men were always like trying to impress me when they learned like books and they would mansplain things to me and I was so fed up and I feel like all of those feelings are just encapsulated in this book because Virginia Woolf is like we need we need our own space guys and so this was really like the Gateway for me which is why as someone interested in reading more about feminism and they've never really approached the topic before I always recommend this because I feel like it's accessible to wherever you are because you can agree you can agree that women deserve education and women are equal you know equal human beings when you see it like this on the page and it's just a first step it's meeting someone where they're at and this is what I needed at the time so it is definitely like feminism 101 but definitely useful still relevant to this day so I keep talking about this but I will spare you because I talked about this book like every couple months I will keep doing so and this is my beloved copy I haven't I have other copies but this is the one that I write in it's my favorite I have of several editions of all the coz you might have noticed I have another copy to salvage of the bones right behind ya anyway so that was the my pleasure tag those are some of my favorite books that I have read in recent years and so you should definitely go check those out thank you so much Robert for tagging me I'm going to tag Doris at all t books Claire at Claire reads books and Lea at hide-and-seek I would love to see you guys do this tag is just a fun tag to talk about some of your favorite Brooks and learn more about the person doing tag so also if you just want to do this tag also please go do the tag because it's a lot of fun anyway that's all for me and I guess I will see you guys the next one right\n"