Vlogmas Day 4

The Santa Claus Book Conundrum: A Family's Dilemma

As I sat in my living room, surrounded by family members, we stumbled upon a problem that seemed trivial at first but soon became a point of contention. On the bookshelf, two books caught our attention - the "Santa Claus" book and another one that seemed to be intended for children of a specific gender. The Santa Claus book itself was not the issue; however, the fact that it had been placed on the shelf, alongside other books that seemed to cater to traditional notions of masculinity and femininity, raised some eyebrows.

My wife, Diana, pointed out the two separate doodle books - one for boys and one for girls. I couldn't help but feel a sense of frustration at this outdated approach. Why do we need to segregate children's creative outlets based on their gender? Isn't it time we move beyond these antiquated norms and allow our kids to express themselves freely, without the constraints of societal expectations? The doodle books seemed like a perfect example of how we're still perpetuating these stereotypes, even in something as innocuous as a book.

As we delved deeper into the conversation, other topics arose that were just as fascinating. We started discussing the Lego sets that had arrived earlier that day. The new collection was impressive, with intricate details and complex structures. However, I couldn't help but notice the separate categories for boys' and girls' sets. It seemed like a cruel joke, don't you think? Why must we separate these beautiful creations based on gender when they're all just Lego bricks, capable of bringing joy to anyone who plays with them?

The discussion took an unexpected turn when my son pointed out that there were other books on the shelf that I wasn't too thrilled about. He suggested that maybe we should get rid of some of those titles altogether and go for something more neutral. It was a bold move, but one that made me realize just how stuck in our ways we can be as a family.

As we continued to chat, other topics emerged. We talked about the stormtrooper figurine that my son had been trying to assemble. He was determined to get it standing upright, but I couldn't help but feel a sense of amusement at his persistence. It was almost as if he was on a mission to prove to himself and us that he could do it.

Just then, our daughter, Jedi, walked into the room with her minifigures in hand. She had been playing with them earlier and must have dropped one on the floor. We all gasped in unison as we took in the sight of the small plastic figure lying on the ground. It was a moment that seemed both chaotic and serene at the same time.

As the afternoon wore on, we delved into the world of Micro Machines. My wife had been collecting them for years, and she was excited to show us some new additions to her collection. However, I couldn't help but feel a sense of confusion when it came to understanding which ones were meant for boys and which ones were meant for girls.

As we began to set up the Lego sets, our discussion turned to the topic of Star Wars and its impact on popular culture. We talked about the latest films and how they're bringing in new fans to the franchise. It was a conversation that seemed both exciting and nostalgic at the same time.

Just as we were getting into the zone, my son pointed out a strange phenomenon - the beam of light from the camera was causing all sorts of optical illusions on our faces. We spent a few minutes laughing and adjusting the lighting until we got the perfect shot.

As the evening drew to a close, we took a moment to appreciate the holiday lights that adorned our home. They were a beautiful sight, and we couldn't help but feel grateful for this time together as a family.

But just as we were about to head out, my wife reminded me of an important issue - pasta and potatoes are vegan on their own, people are freaking out! It was a moment of levity that broke the tension and allowed us to reflect on our priorities as a family.

"WEBVTTKind: captionsLanguage: enhe sees you when you're sleeping he knows when you're awake he knows if you've been bad or good so be good for goodness sake you good that's creeping me out man why did I go out stay home for the rest of my life I've been safe in my vehicle for about five minutes and I still feel that the Santa Claus book is staring at me somewhere out there you saw it didn't you he was staring at you too Hey am I in a JJ Abrams film check out that lens flare from the Sun at least I think that's what it is the glowing ball three shooting out of it behind me yeah I hate when people pee on the sidewalk I just leave it there someone could step in it looks like the Wookiees have arrived for today 100 pieces of Thanos and the infinity gems that Jedi has torn into but not assembled let me go ahead and get it started for her after I turn the lights on silver and Yoda silver n Yoda I was getting ready to show Diana the Santa Claus book video clip to see if she saw what I saw and that was Santa Claus seeing both of us and I realized that there were other books on the Shelf that I wasn't very happy about now I'm going to be a Grinch for just a moment and I hope you can bear with me Jenna I just realized that I'm home there were two books the boys doodle book and the girls doodle book that annoys me that's wrong that's gender stereotyping we shouldn't do that that would be like saying food for boys and food for girls no it's just food just doodles imagine if we told Jedi because she was doodling that she was doodling like she shouldn't be doodling she could always be doodling like she's doodling she's a doodler that's what you do doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl so why have a boys book and a girls do a book why not just have a doodle book doodles their gender-neutral as our puzzles as our drinks like coffee good job who is it and the Infinity stones do you see anybody else in there that you know daddy had his heart attack for the day saw this piece on the floor and thought it was a dead spider so he made mommy figure out what it was yeah and I didn't have my contacts in so I touched it without even knowing what it was Lego beard when Jedi brought her little minifig been in here to play with it with the playsets she must have dropped that on the floor to freak her father out wow that was fast we did get a stormtrooper Jared collection do we have to get a second well I don't know what that one is whoa no we gotta wait don't be 24 that one don't spoil it okay let's move on to the lego sets and in the Micro for sex yeah let's keep 10 and 20 therefore a 10 and 20 do I have to get 2 coin sets she's collecting them now okay what is that I don't know either boy they are getting very creative with this year's sets okay I may need your help to hold this part up you want to pop it out come on window we got a Siberian Husky all right you're gonna put that together and here are the instructions no wait those are the instructions hmm sorry about that what are you doing back here there's a nice shot but what is it a medical speeder a parade what about Pixy can she help sure they go bricks her for boys and girls not dogs I built a spaceship for the new hit TV series Catwoman and the tiger oh yeah Oh I think diana has been reading to Jedi all day which is rather nice me I've been busy trying to get this stormtrooper figurine to stand up or is it a figure at which point does a figure become a figurine or vice versa I'm not sure I'll get it so long as the beam of light stays away from me no I got it tonight's holiday lights can be enjoyed from afar and who's this one for cool who's this one for how about we send this to ito and eita uncle Hector and then Nunis your box butter yeah did you know that pasta and potatoes were vegan on their own people are freaking out right now nooch look at my lips conceal you see how chapped there you don't want to take part in this trust me husband's has this ever happened to you your wife says here feeling like someone who's in constructions fingertips my lips are so chapped I think it's from last night at the zoo from the light the cold oh yeah the cold not the actual light that easier it's a wide-angle lens but we need a tall angle family that's what I said no my face is smoother okay Jenna easy the judge what smoother daddy's face or mommy's lips she's chopping broccoli me too ha ha just you wait oh no no wait for me don't do that we need more don't we what happened to the Imperial Walker it fell well we can't it's fallen use the hook now that is a colorful dinnerhe sees you when you're sleeping he knows when you're awake he knows if you've been bad or good so be good for goodness sake you good that's creeping me out man why did I go out stay home for the rest of my life I've been safe in my vehicle for about five minutes and I still feel that the Santa Claus book is staring at me somewhere out there you saw it didn't you he was staring at you too Hey am I in a JJ Abrams film check out that lens flare from the Sun at least I think that's what it is the glowing ball three shooting out of it behind me yeah I hate when people pee on the sidewalk I just leave it there someone could step in it looks like the Wookiees have arrived for today 100 pieces of Thanos and the infinity gems that Jedi has torn into but not assembled let me go ahead and get it started for her after I turn the lights on silver and Yoda silver n Yoda I was getting ready to show Diana the Santa Claus book video clip to see if she saw what I saw and that was Santa Claus seeing both of us and I realized that there were other books on the Shelf that I wasn't very happy about now I'm going to be a Grinch for just a moment and I hope you can bear with me Jenna I just realized that I'm home there were two books the boys doodle book and the girls doodle book that annoys me that's wrong that's gender stereotyping we shouldn't do that that would be like saying food for boys and food for girls no it's just food just doodles imagine if we told Jedi because she was doodling that she was doodling like she shouldn't be doodling she could always be doodling like she's doodling she's a doodler that's what you do doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl so why have a boys book and a girls do a book why not just have a doodle book doodles their gender-neutral as our puzzles as our drinks like coffee good job who is it and the Infinity stones do you see anybody else in there that you know daddy had his heart attack for the day saw this piece on the floor and thought it was a dead spider so he made mommy figure out what it was yeah and I didn't have my contacts in so I touched it without even knowing what it was Lego beard when Jedi brought her little minifig been in here to play with it with the playsets she must have dropped that on the floor to freak her father out wow that was fast we did get a stormtrooper Jared collection do we have to get a second well I don't know what that one is whoa no we gotta wait don't be 24 that one don't spoil it okay let's move on to the lego sets and in the Micro for sex yeah let's keep 10 and 20 therefore a 10 and 20 do I have to get 2 coin sets she's collecting them now okay what is that I don't know either boy they are getting very creative with this year's sets okay I may need your help to hold this part up you want to pop it out come on window we got a Siberian Husky all right you're gonna put that together and here are the instructions no wait those are the instructions hmm sorry about that what are you doing back here there's a nice shot but what is it a medical speeder a parade what about Pixy can she help sure they go bricks her for boys and girls not dogs I built a spaceship for the new hit TV series Catwoman and the tiger oh yeah Oh I think diana has been reading to Jedi all day which is rather nice me I've been busy trying to get this stormtrooper figurine to stand up or is it a figure at which point does a figure become a figurine or vice versa I'm not sure I'll get it so long as the beam of light stays away from me no I got it tonight's holiday lights can be enjoyed from afar and who's this one for cool who's this one for how about we send this to ito and eita uncle Hector and then Nunis your box butter yeah did you know that pasta and potatoes were vegan on their own people are freaking out right now nooch look at my lips conceal you see how chapped there you don't want to take part in this trust me husband's has this ever happened to you your wife says here feeling like someone who's in constructions fingertips my lips are so chapped I think it's from last night at the zoo from the light the cold oh yeah the cold not the actual light that easier it's a wide-angle lens but we need a tall angle family that's what I said no my face is smoother okay Jenna easy the judge what smoother daddy's face or mommy's lips she's chopping broccoli me too ha ha just you wait oh no no wait for me don't do that we need more don't we what happened to the Imperial Walker it fell well we can't it's fallen use the hook now that is a colorful dinner\n"